HELLO HELLO
Lagi pingin ngomongin peran seorang ibu. Gara2 ngelihat video Marshanda. Pertama kali ngeliat video Marshanda, biasa aja, yah cuman nyanyi2 doang, banyak banget emang di youtube semua video orang2 lipsync nyanyi2 ikutin idola mereka. biasa lah orang mengekspresikan diri, tapi emang ada video Marshanda yang emang sedih, dan nangis, dan mulailah gosip2 infotainment memasang videonya, ngomongin soal masalah yang mereka juga ga tau sebenernya, mereka mengira2 apakah karena dia yang turun pamor, atau karna broken home, atau karna temen SD nya yang sering menghujat dia, apapun itu, this is my opinion.....
Everyone has problem, not only celebrity. Tapi ada orang yang gagal dalam menghadapi problemnya, ada juga yang berhasil keluar dari masalah itu. Menurutku seorang anak kecil itu sangat rentan, lugu, murni, polos, tidak tau arah, dan ga tau apa yang harus dilakukan dalam menghadapi dirinya sendiri, teman2nya, dan juga hidupnya, maka itu sangat diperlukan peran orang dewasa di sekitarnya, mau itu kakak, ayah, dan yang paling terpenting adalah ibu.
Ibu seharusnya membimbing ketika ada masalah, menyemangati ketika kita down, believe in their children even their chidlren is not believe in themselves, memberikan opini dalam bagaimana menghadapi hidup ini, teman-teman, lingkungan dan diri sendiri.
Aku bukan membandingkan seorang artis dan artis lainnya. Contoh Agnes Monica, dia sudah menjadi seorang selebritis sejak masih sangat belia, 6 tahun, dan sekarang dia tumbuh dewasa menjadi pribadi yang kokoh, pribadi yang sangat believe in herself, dan always has a vision. Aku ga percaya kalau dia menjadi who is today only because of herself, i believe has someone behind the scene, on the background that has support her all the way, make her confident, and teach her how to deal with herself, others, and the life. Beberapa kali seorang Agnes Monica menjawab, ibu, mama. Yah mamanya sendiri yang mengajar dia setiap hari how to deal with everything, how to survive in this entertainment industry with all the gossips and insulting.
I am a mom myself. I have a 3 years old daughter. I believe my role in herlife is very huge, and i cannot focus only academically only in her school. but i have to care her emotionally, pay attention to what she says, and care enough for her problem, and teach her, guide her how to deal with herself, others and herlife.
Honestly, i dont have a mom like that, that is why i learn from my childhood, from my experience, how hard life is, and the children need someone to talk to emotionally, they need somebody to guide them, to make them become a better person, to lead them in every way in their life.
And last word, I promise i will be a mom who very care with my child not only physically but also emotionally, care with her problem, listen to their stories, give my shoulder to cry on, and not only that, i will encourage her, protect her, believe in her, support her and guide her in her life. Jesus, please help me.
Embun Pagi
